Recently, a question was sent to a tournament from a parent asking why the U9 players are not required to wear headgear? She cited all sorts of studies about headballs, headgear, etc. and then ranted a bit about how the tournament was being irresponsible and providing an unsafe environment for the children. The proper response, of course, was that while head gear was not mandated, it was also not excluded. If the parent felt the play was unsafe for their child without head gear, they have the right and responsibility to require their child wear some. She also had a right to not sign the liability form and that by not signing, her child would not be allowed to play. Moreover, her issue was really with the coach, not the tournament.
But, the response was not given before a few suggestions got passed around the tournament staff, my favorite is posted above.
Head injuries are not funny and should not be laughed at. We’re not doing that. What is funny is a cat wearing a citrus peel as a helmet and parents who are so overprotective of their kids that they suck the fun out of everything they do. It is also quite sad that in 10 short years, these are the same kids who will be voting, never having seen any environment other than the one artificially created for them by their well-meaning parents. But, I digress.
Our advice: Never lose your sense of humor. Soccer is, after all JUST A GAME! Have a bit of fun along the way. Managing a tournament is a lot of hard work just communicating with coaches, not to mention all the parents who have easy access to you. Find fun where you can. It will keep you young and keep the tone of the tournament light.